Lets Talk About Sex.....or the Lack Thereof

Have you guys ever tried to cuddle up to your woman and she's just not in the mood or you've noticed its been a few days since your woman has been the slut that she normally is?  Don't fret or call Cheaters! She's probably just as confused and or frustrated as you are.  This is the time to sit with your partner and talk about sex!!

Vaginal Dryness
Sometimes our men just don't understand the importance of four play and just dive in as soon as the panties fly across the room and hit the ceiling fan. No sir!! Pump the brakes! Vaginal dryness can cause discomfort and anxiety about having sex, if it is a continuous issue. Talk to her. Learn her turn ons to get those juices flowing and if all else fails make a quick stop to your local CVS or Walmart to pick up some lubricants to make sex more pleasurable for the both of you.

Stress
Isn't stress the accomplice of every disease and health nuisance known to man. Well it doesn't stop there, stress will try to destroy your sex life, as well. I know a long day at work, the kids constant demands, and daily hustles and bustles can leave you feeling overwhelmed. Chill, relax, and get it on! Having sex can actually help you to combat those feelings of stress.

Hormonal Changes
A lot of younger women, think "I'm young and vibrant. I have years before I cross that hurdle!" Right? Wrong. Women in there 20's have hormonal fluctuations that affect their sex drive. Talk to your doctor and let your partner know whats going on. However, consider pleasing him in other ways and you never know-you just might relight that flame!

Routine
Get out of that routine. Doing the same thing, same positions, in the same bed can have you feeling like Groundhogs day. Make a pact to stay out of the bed and do it in as many places other than your room. Why not try on top of a random (clean) car in a parking garage!

Every couple has different factors that can alter or change altogether their sex life. My advice is if your husband is in need you must agree at least every now and again. But not just the "let me lay here like a log and just get hunched." No, if you have to fake it til you make it then, become an actress. Trust me, you can't help but get turned on by being selfless and making your man feel important. Ladies a healthy man needs sex from his woman. It makes him feel a certain way that can't be comprehended by women. However, I do say to men, understand your lady and help her get through this phrase in her life because once its over you may have to beat her off with a bat. :)